What Do Women Value Most In A Relationship?
To understand what women value most in a relationship, you must pay attention to a few factors.
First of all, did you know that women tend to be more selective when looking for a partner than men? This is because we pay more attention to small details, since we tend to focus on other aspects that go beyond sheer physical attractiveness.
However, we also like to seduce and conquer those who have the characteristics that correspond to our ideal partner. Here we explain what we are looking for in general in a partner.
1. Someone to build a good team with
Having a partner means living together. Build a day to day where there is complicity and harmony. Therefore, it is not enough just to have the most handsome man in the world if, in reality, he is unable to build that daily engine with which to be happy.
Women are looking for someone who makes us laugh, someone with whom to share confidences and be understood. We are looking for partners who make life easy for us, and who do not bring us demands, mistrust or situations marked by jealousy.
As a study published by the University of Michoacana would well demonstrate, these three factors would not contribute to making a team but to marking personal distances in which suffering would always emerge.
In short, we want the normalcy of a couple with whom we hope for life with a smile, and without tears.
2. In a relationship we are looking for a person who listens and knows how to communicate
An article published by the Journal of Divorce & Remarriage emphasizes that good communication is essential in any relationship. So much so that we, like them, must have the ability to know how to listen and understand the person in front of us. The one we live with and with whom we are building a common future.
It is for this reason that we tend to look for people with whom we can talk about anything; someone skilled at talking about his emotions, about what hurts him and what makes him happy.
On the other hand, someone who does not communicate or who does not know how to communicate is a person who does not share and who builds walls instead of opening doors. Coexistence becomes hard if there is no confidence to speak; therefore it is important to know that we are going to be heard when we need to say something … no matter how insignificant it may be.
We all need our voices to be heard and, in turn, to offer us words of understanding.
3. A couple that makes us laugh and excites us
The day-to-day illusion is lit with simple acts; a smile in the morning, a promise or a project for the future. He also appears with that look that attends us when we need comfort, with a hug in the dark and a loud laugh shared on a walk in the park.
This illusion must be worked on every day, as it does not magically appear on its own. In addition, one must feel the will to make the person with whom he lives happy; either because he loves and respects her or because he wishes her the best.
In any case, the important thing is that little efforts will be made so that the illusion does not escape like smoke escaping through an open window. Do not forget that without illusion, love ends up blurring.
4. For a couple relationship, a mature, secure and emotionally skilled person is sought.
We must know that immature and insecure people are the ones who cause us the most unhappiness. This is corroborated by the following study published by the Universidad Espíritu Santo of Ecuador.
If they distrust or have low self-esteem, they will end up having doubts at all times. This can end up developing a toxic relationship in which jealousy or emotional manipulation would appear to have us by their side through blackmail and deceit.
For this reason, the ideal is to find a mature, self-confident and skillful person; that has empathy, that knows what hurts us and acquires the commitment to build a happy, healthy and stable relationship over time.
Each case is different
While these aspects are fundamental, it is understandable that nobody is perfect. Many of these points can be discussed as a couple if the interest in continuing the relationship is mutual and there is really a spark that moves all these interests. And you, have you already found your ideal partner?
